Thoughts...

Initially I was thinking I will write something about how men can be so childish sometimes or how they fail to understand the simplest things or how they claim to have no sentiments yet you can feel it in their undertones.

As I was thinking about the above, I realized that most people only think about the negative aspects of the other person when they are angry. It is justifiable but that is what everyone does.
Since everyone does that, I don't want to.

So I decided I will not let my anger or disappointment control my thought process. Yeah, he disappointed me but that doesn't mean I should disregard all the times when he has been so sweet or cared for me or cherished me or made me feel like the best "lady" in the world. When I do this, I start realizing that the sweet things outweigh the negative things by a mile.

Also, we all tend to react very quickly and say many things that we might not mean. I know I do. I am trying to change that and I believe I have been quite successful.

I put myself in the others' shoes and really start thinking about it from his perspective and I realize that he is right in his own way. Then my practicality shines through as well and everything is back in its normal place. BUT there is one problem, when my practicality shines through, only my practicality does and then there is no room left for anything else.
Being a libran, I should probably seek a balance and I do. But then again, ego comes in the way.

WOW...Mr. Ego...I think it runs in my family. Mine is probably bigger than my whole body if it was given tangible space. I let my ego come in my way a lot of the times, but then again...I am quite prideful so I suppose it is okay.